Friday, April 17, 2009

To have a 3rd or not to have a 3rd...

That is the burning question that I can't get off my mind. I am losing at least 2 hrs of sleep thinking of every pro and con to adding another baby into the family. I try to not be selfish with my reasons but everything I think of for not wanting another is selfish. Please pray that God will really show Jarrett and me the answer to this burning question. This is a topic that weighs heavily on our minds everyday.

5 comments:

  1. I go back and forth with this decision EVERYDAY! I hope you can have some peace with the thought process and know that when you make a decision it will be the right one!

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  2. I am the exact same way, I want a 3rd more than anything...especially a girl, but all the reasons that I'm waiting are pretty selfish!! Sarah G

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  3. I think if you're struggling with this decision, then you guys want a third. I know it's a hard trying to imagine adding another little baby when things are hectic with the ones you already have, speaking from personal experience of course ;-) Hang in there, you guys will make the right choice!

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  4. I want 3, Nathan does not. As far as he's concerned we're done. I'll just say we are in wait & see mode. I'm with Heather up there. If you're both struggling then go for it and have the 3rd. If you only wanted 2 then you wouldn't be questioning yourself this much. Good luck.

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